PREM DEV DILEEP'S SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY RESEARCH FINDINGS

Hi I am Prem Dev Dileep (Graphic Designer, Zoologist, Film Script Writer,Social thinker, Self taught Social Psychologist & Researcher.

STRANGERS

EVERY STRANGERS ARE AROUND US WILL BE VERY STRANGER UNTILL WE OR THEY OR BOTH SAY the MAGIC word "HI" Together & introduces each other.

Experimentally i find the in today's society most of the persons are lazy in talking or simply introducing to a STRANGER, because there are many risks involved in making quik contacts with unknown person. But people belongs to same department or category or gender or anything semms similar persons only introduces each other when they meet at purticular function or event or any other situations.

I find that women are more reserved in thinking about their safety first when even they are in a need of asking a help from a stranger. Mens more confident enough to face any negative situations or negative reactions un expectedly from the stranger to whom he just introduced. 

OUR EYES HAVE MAGIC POWER

It is the EYE which writes the first information report by after witnessing anything in front of that. Eyes are like CCTV camera, we cannot zoom in or out just observe, or simply look. And what I realized about the magical powers of eyes are when we hangout in public or in a indoor function or anywhere where many people present our eyes automatically scans around the faces to find out the recognizable one and suddenly if our eyes catches of beautiful girl who has been standing alone or has been in a conversation with someone but without minding us, and our eyes sticks on that girl's face until she gives a look at the eyes of us. And the moment she looks at our eyes our eyes gets either nervous, fear or excited, and if our eyes gets excited it will start tracking her eyes and try to greet her eyes, and then her eyes will ask her who is that guy who has been noticing you and then both eyes becomes friends without our knowledge and saves the moment in brain's SD card and next time, if you again comes to that same place, the first thing your eye will do is you eyes will scan the people around to find her, because your eyes got crush into that girl's beautiful eyes. And if this kind of magic happens, you can gently go close to her and her eyes will widen as you move close her and then she may give you an innocent smile and even you can say the magic word 'Hi' in a calm and sweet way. If that automatic smile is not coming out of you then it is not a good idea to say 'Hi' in a nervous or fearful way. You may feel nervous if you think what is this girl doesn't replies to my 'Hi' or what if she feels bad about my approach, what if she miss judge me as a cupid guy? what if her collogues ask me do you know her? but remember one thing, girls hate the guys who are nervous while speaking and not confident while speaking, because when a boy speaks to a girl with a jitter, nervous or fear the girl's assume quickly that, he is hiding something or he is not genuinely speaking or he is taking me in a wrong way.

So trust your eyes, follow your eyes, eyes will help you to find the best person who's eyes also have similar emotions, your eyes will never stick to a the eyes of a person who's eyes are largely open and sharp kike knife and threatening us.

I had experienced many times when i was hanging out in city and many girl's eyes were got locked with my eyes for 2-4 Minutes duration. Some didn't gave any smile of expressions, just observed my eyes carefully to get to know that is his eyes are believable eyes? but when a strange girl looks at my eyes my eyes immediately takes off eye line from her eyes and then again comes back to her eyes like a boomerang and that time her eye lines goes off from eyes and then again automatically her eyes comes back to my eyes like a boomerang and then both the eyes stay scanned each other for a while, while he eye scans my eyes if my eyes feels excited and widely opens and fills with a smile then her eyes will also fill with smile, but sometimes they takes off their eyes and smiles by looking somewhere else. But eyes are eyes, those are the most sensitive and innocent organ in human body.